TANTRA - SECRET OF A COMPLETE AND FULFILLED LIFE

TANTRA

2009-11-17T16:32:00.001+05:30

TANTRA is a way of life. Life of Ecstasy & Freedom. All the time you fight for various kinds of freedoms, sometime it is for economic freedom, social freedom, freedom from spouse, freedom from rules etc but if you can free yourself from all the conditioning you carry you will see that life is full of bliss.

TANTRA opens the doors to enjoyment for you and your partner. The enjoyment which no amount of money, power can give.

TANTRA GODDESS

2009-11-17T16:31:00.001+05:30

WE HAVE COME ACROSS THAT MANY WOMEN ON INTERNET FOOLING PEOPLE CLAIMING THEM TO BE TANTRA-GODDESSES. IN OUR OPINION THEY ARE JUST SEX-WORKERS OPERATING IN WESTERN ATMOSPHERE AND FOOLING THOS WE ARE INTERESTED IN TANTRA.

ARROGANT SEER

2009-11-17T16:27:00.001+05:30

MANY YEARS BACK I WAS TRAVELLING IN HIMALAYAN MOUNTAINS AND MET AN ARROGANT SEER. WE HAD AN ARGUMENT ABOUT TANTRA AND HE SAID THAT HE HAS NEVER HAD SEX AND HAS GOT SO MUCH POWER THAT HE CAN MAKE A DEAD PERSON ALIVE WITH HIS POWERS. I KNOW THAT SUCH PEOPLE ARE RESPECTED EVERYWHERE AND PEOPLE START WORSHIPPING THEM, BUT MY BELIEFS ARE DIFFERENT. I DO NOT BELIEVE IN BACKWARD INTEGRATION AND THIS ACTION IS SOMEWHAT BACKWARD INTEGRATION FOR ME. I TOLD HIM THAT THIS I CANNOT DO BUT I CAN CREATE LIFE FRESH. I CARRY THE POWER TO CREATE A FRESH LIFE.

TANTRA AND MEDITATION

2009-11-17T16:25:00.003+05:30

TANTRA AND MEDITATION CANNOT BE EVENT BASED PROGRAMS. EVERYDAY I HEAR FROM MANY WHO HAD ATTENDED MEDITATION PROGRAMS. THEY HAVE A GOOD FEELING THERE AND THE MOMENT THEY ARE BACK IN LIFE, IT'S THE SAME OLD STORY. MY DEAR FRIENDS WHO RUN THESE MEDITATION CLASSES FORGET IT THAT MEDITATION OF LIKE BREATHING WHICH HAS TO BE THERE ALL THE TIME. WHAT THEY TEACH IS CONCENTRATION AND NOT MEDITATION.

LOVE AND PRESSURE

2009-11-17T16:25:00.001+05:30

LOVE, JUST LIKE SEX IS THE MOST MISUNDERSTOOD WORD IN THIS WORLD.

SUPPOSE THAT YOU ARE WITH YOUR PARTNER. IT'S A BEAUTIFUL EVENING AND WEATHER IS JUST RIGHT. PARTNERS MEET AT 9.00 PM. AND ARE HAVING A BEAUTIFUL EVENING.

CONSIDER TWO OPTIONS.
FIRST IS THAT AT 11.30 PM YOU RECALL THAT YOU HAVE GOT SOME IMPORTANT WORK IN MORNING AND NEED REST NOW AFTER GOING HOME. CAN YOU SAY THIS TO YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT ANY HESITATION OR ANTICIPATING ANY REACTION FROM HIM/HER.

SECOND OPTION IS THAT AT 11.30 PM YOUR PARTNER RECALLS THAT HE/ SHE HAS GOT SOME IMPORTANT WORK IN MORNING AND NEED REST NOW AFTER GOING HOME. CAN YOU HEAR IT WITHOUT FEELING BAD OR DOUBTING HIM/ HER OR PRESSURIZING HIM/ HER TO STAY.

DO A REALITY CHECK IF YOU ARE IN SUCH A LOVE RELATIONSHIP IT IS NOT LOVE AND IT IS BONDAGE.

WOMEN ARE DELICATE NOT WEAK

2009-11-17T16:24:00.001+05:30

WOMEN ARE SUCH DELICATE THINGS, MIND IT I SAY DELICATE NOT WEAK. THEY ARE NOT MEANT TO BE BATTERED LIKE MOST MEN THINK IT THAT WAY. HANDLE A WAY AS GENTLY AS YOU CAN.

TANTRA SEX

2009-11-11T16:20:00.000+05:30

SEX SHOULD NOT BE A BIOLOGICAL EVENTS FOR YOU AND IT SHOULD BE VOLUNTARY.

MEANING SEX SHOULD NOT BE THAT YOU ARE FEELING A DISCOMFORT IN YOUR SEX ZONE AND THERE IS AN URGENT NEED TO RELIEVE YOURSELF SO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX.

IT SHOULD BE TOTALLY VOLUNTARY. MEANING WHEN YOU ARE NOT IN A HURRY THAT YOU HAVE TO DO IT NOW.

TANTRA INSIGHT

2009-11-08T16:14:00.000+05:30

-TANTRA RECOGNIZES THE ESSENTIALITY OF SEX IN HUMAN LIFE.

-SEX THE DOOR TO ENLIGHTENMENT AND EVEN IF IT DOES NOT LEAD TO ENLIGHTENMENT IT GIVES INNER KNOWLEDGE AND HAPPINESS.

- THINGS TO REMEMBER BEFORE TANTRA SEX:
NO BEFORE NO AFTER- REMAIN IN THE MOMENT. YOU ARE JUST FLOWING WITH CURRENT. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE IN DAY TO DAY LIFE BUT IN THOSE MOMENTS BE THERE ONLY. IT IS FOR THE PARTNER AS WELL AS LIFE.

ONLY SEX NOTHING ELSE- WHEN YOU DO SEX YOU HAVE SEX ONLY AND NOTHING ELSE.

START WITH YOUR BODY. LOVE IT, CARESS IT, FEEL IT, TOUCH IT, SMELL IT, INHALE IT, TASTE IT, BITE IT, RECOGNIZE IT.

LIFE IS CREATED BY SEX.
ALL RELIGIONS ASK FOR MARRIAGE AND SOCIALLY MARRIAGE IS ACCEPTED.
ALL RELIGIONS ASK FOR GIVING BIRTH TO CHILDREN.
FOR PRODUCING CHILDREN IF PEOPLE DO SEX, RELIGION AND SOCIETY ARE NOT AGAINST IT. IF IT IS THERE FOR ENJOYMENT THEN IT IS CRITICIZED. THIS PROVES THAT SOCIAL STRUCTURE AND RELIGIOUS LEADERS ARE AGAINST YOUR ENJOYMENT. SEX GIVES PEACE AND CALMNESS.

SEX HAS GOT NOTHING TO DO WITH LUST AND FEMALE EXPLOITATION CRIMES. THE ACTIONS LOOK THE SAME IN BOTH BUT IT IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT. THE SAME DIFFERENCE IS THERE IN EARNING MONEY AND LOOTING IT. IN BOTH THERE ARE TWO PEOPLE. MONEY IS THERE. IT IS BEING EXCHANGED. BUT STILL IT IS NOT SAME. SAME WAY SEX AND SEXUAL CRIME ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT. THEY CANNOT EVEN BE COMPARED.

WOMEN LIBERATION

2009-11-06T16:07:00.000+05:30

IN THIS NEW AGE WE GET TO HEAR A LOT ABOUT WOMEN LIBERATION.

THAT IS THE NEED OF HOUR. ESPECIALLY WOMEN WHO ARE IN MARRIAGE NEED TO CONSIDER IT AGAIN.

MEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN CONVINCING WOMEN THAT MEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE POLYGAMOUS AND WOMEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE MONOGAMOUS. IT GIVES THEM A GOOD REASON TO DO THAT NONSENSE WHAT THEY DO. TRUTH IS THAT WOMEN HAVE MORE CAPACITY TO GIVE EMOTIONALLY AND MEN HAVE GOT LIMITED CAPACITY EMOTIONALLY. THIS MAKES THEM INCAPABLE TO CARRY ON WITH MORE THAN ONE PERSON. WOMEN CAN BE POLYGAMOUS IF THEY WANT OF COURSE, BECAUSE THEM HAVE MUCH MORE CAPACITY.

ON PHYSICAL LEVEL ALSO A MAN IS DESIGNED FOR A SINGLE ORGASM AND AFTER THAT HE HAS TO WAIT FOR SOME TIME TO BE READY FOR ANOTHER HARD-ON. SO NATURE HAS DESIGNED MAN TO BE MONOGAMOUS. WHEREAS A WOMAN HAS GOT THE CAPACITY TO HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS. EITHER THE MAN GIVES SO MUCH LOVE AND AFFECTION TO WOMAN THAT HE CAN COMPENSATE HER FOR HIS INCAPACITY. ALL OVER IT IS SEEN THAT RULE OF FIDELITY APPLIES TO WOMEN AND NOT THAT HARDLY ON MEN. IN A MARRIAGE IN ANY COUNTRY IF A WOMAN IS FOUND BE HAVING AN AFFAIR THE TREATMENT IS DIFFERENT WHEREAS IT IS DIFFERENT IF MAN IS HAVING AN AFFAIR IT IS TAKEN LIGHTLY BY SOCIETY AND MOST OF THE TIMES HIS WIFE IS ALSO GOING TO LET IT GO. IT’S NOT A QUESTION OF FIDELITY OR INFIDELITY WHICH WE ARE TALKING HERE BUT THERE SHOULD BE A EQUAL APPROACH IN DEALING WITH IT. ON SOCIAL LEVELS ALSO A MAN WHO IS HAVING AFFAIRS IS CONSIDERED TO BE A MACHO WHEREAS A WOMAN HAVING AFFAIR IS CONSIDERED A FALLEN WOMAN. TILL THE TIME WE START LOOKING AT THESE THINGS DIFFERENTLY WE CANNOT SAY THAT THIS SOCIETY IS MOVING TOWARDS WOMEN LIBERATION. THERE SHOULD BE AN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF WOMEN’S SEXUAL NEEDS ALSO. WITHOUT THIS THE WHOLE EFFORT OF WOMEN LIBERATION WILL BE A WASTE.

PRELIMINARIES TO TANTRA SEX 2 - WATCH YOUR DESIRE.

2009-10-31T18:44:00.008+05:30

MOST OF THE PEOPLE WHO CONTACT ME ARE NOT CLEAR ABOUT THEIR DESIRES AND WISHES. WHAT I SAY IS THAT A DESIRE SHOULD BE THE ONE WHICH IS JUST FOR YOU AND COMING FROM YOUR CORE.

FOR EXAMPLE A LADY I MET AT AN ART EXHIBITION WAS MAD FOR DIAMONDS. SHE CLAIMED THAT DIAMONDS GIVE HERE INNER PEACE. I ASKED HER TO LOOK WITHIN AGAIN IF THAT'S THE CASE. SHE WAITED FOR FIVE MINUTES AND SAID YES. I TOLD HER TO IMAGINE THAT DIAMONDS ARE AVAILABLE AT ALL THE PLACES, YOU DIG IN AND YOU FIND DIAMONDS, EVEN A BLUE COLLAR WORKER IS HAVING DIAMONDS. SHE SAID THEN DIAMONDS LOSE ALL THE CHARM FOR HER. WITH THIS IMAGINATION SHE WAS ABLE TO SEE THAT IT IS THE EXCLUSIVITY OF THE DIAMONDS WHICH MAKES THEM DESIRABLE FOR HER AND NOT THE DIAMOND ITSELF. GOING DEEPER WHY THE EXCLUSIVITY ATTRACTS HER. BECAUSE OWNING AN EXCLUSIVE ITEM PROVES HER SUPERIOR TO OTHER. CONCLUSION IS THAT IT IS NOT DIAMONDS WHICH ARE HER WANTING, IT IS SUPREMACY OVER OTHERS WHICH IS HER WISH. NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. JUST THAT SHE SHOULD KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS AND HOW SHE WANTS. SHE SHOULD NOT BE LIVING IN A CONFUSION. NOW NEW METHODS OF ENJOYMENT WILL BE OPEN TO HER SINCE SHE KNOWS WHAT GIVES HER THE KICKS.

TRY TO SEE WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT, NOT WHAT IT LOOKS OUT ON THE SURFACE. WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR PARTNER. IT WILL HELP YOU ACHIEVE MORE AND MORE SATISFACTION. MANY MEN ARE WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITH A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN SO THAT THEY CAN FEEL PROUD OF THEIR ACHIEVEMENT. IF THE SENSE OF PROUD OR POSSESSION IS REMOVED DO YOU WANT HER EQUALLY.

PRELIMINARIES TO TANTRA SEX - TREATING SEX AS SIN AND GUILT.

2009-10-27T22:41:00.005+05:30

BEFORE GOING ON TO EXPLAIN THE STEPS TO TANTRA SEX, I HAVE TO GO INTO THE HINDRANCES WHICH WILL BLOCK YOUR WAY.

SEX, THE WORD ONLY, ACCORDING TO YOU CARRIES A LOT OF EXCITEMENT AND AROUSAL. TRUE, I DONOT DIFFER FROM THAT. BUT THIS EXCITEMENT AND AROUSAL IS ONLY FROM THE CONSCIOUS MIND AND ON THE CONTRARY AT THE SUB-CON LEVEL THERE IS A FEELING OF SIN &; GUILT ATTACHED TO IT. THIS IS DUE TO DEEP LAYERS OF CONDITIONING SINCE CHILDHOOD. WHEN AS AN INNOCENT CHILD YOU WOULD TOUCH YOUR GENITAL AND YOU SAW A DENIAL ON THE FACE OF YOUR PARENTS, YOU IMMEDIATELY WITHDREW YOUR HAND. THAT WAS THE FIRST SILENT MESSAGE SENT TO YOUR SUB-CON THAT SEX IS SINNING. IN TEENS & TILL YOU BECAME INDEPENDENT, YOU WERE NOT EVER GIVEN THE MESSAGE THAT "MY CHILD, SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT IS THE MOST ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE ON THIS EARTH, BUT WAIT TILL YOUR YOUTH OR MARRIAGE AND THEN ENJOY IT FULLY". NOT THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE WORKING TO HARM YOU AND YOU SHOULD BLAME THEM NOW FOR ALL THIS CONDITIONING. TRUTH IS THAT THEY THEMSELVES SUFFERED FROM THE SAME BELIEFS. BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT WE ARE BORN OUT OF SEX AND EVERY PARTICLE OF OUR BODY IS FULL OF SEX. FREUD SAID THAT IF YOU ARE ASKED TO REMEMBER THE FIRST SIGNIFICANT THOUGHT OF YOUR ADOLESCENCE, IT WILL ALWAYS BE SEXUAL. STILL SEX IS DENIED SO MUCH THAT IT GETS THRU' TO ONE'S SUB-CON THAT IT IS SINNING. YOU DO IT BUT ALL THE TIME IT IS ADDING A WEIGHT TO YOUR HEART. LONG TIME BACK I HAD A PARTNER WHO WAS FROM MEDIA BUSINESS AND WHEN EVER SHE WOULD STOP HAVING SEX 15 DAYS BEFORE ANY UPCOMING FILM RELEASE. ONCE SHE TOLD ME ABOUT HER SUPERSTITION. IT TOOK ME 3 MONTH TO CLEAR ALL FROM WITH IN HER. SO FIRST PRACTICE IS TO SEE THAT DO YOU CARRY THE FEELING OF SINNING AND GUILT ABOUT SEX. JUST WATCH DONOT TRY TO OVERCOME...

TANTRA TIP FOR WOMEN

2009-10-27T19:25:00.009+05:30

Having a perfect figure or beauty has no relation with your enjoyment. Start loving your body as it is. Fall in love with it.

An area ignored by women during self-bliss is tits. Sit comfortably, close your eyes and touch your tits softly, with a feather touch. Talk to them. Shower your love on them. Don't think that they are the means of a foreplay. They have the ability to give complete satisfaction on their own. You don't need to touch your yoni also.

Every step in sex is not the means to the orgasm. It has the beauty and pleasure which is complete in itself.

TANTRA TIP FOR MEN

2009-10-27T17:26:00.005+05:30

Fulfilling sex has got nothing to do with size of your lingam and the amount of time you can stay up.

Fall in love with your Lingam. When you the owner is not satisfied with it how do you expect your partner to be satisfied with it.

Sex is not the exploitation of your partner. Give her pleasure. Don't try to be the best lover or fucker. Be gentle with her, touch her heart.