PRELIMINARIES TO TANTRA SEX 2 - WATCH YOUR DESIRE.

MOST OF THE PEOPLE WHO CONTACT ME ARE NOT CLEAR ABOUT THEIR DESIRES AND WISHES. WHAT I SAY IS THAT A DESIRE SHOULD BE THE ONE WHICH IS JUST FOR YOU AND COMING FROM YOUR CORE.

FOR EXAMPLE A LADY I MET AT AN ART EXHIBITION WAS MAD FOR DIAMONDS. SHE CLAIMED THAT DIAMONDS GIVE HERE INNER PEACE. I ASKED HER TO LOOK WITHIN AGAIN IF THAT'S THE CASE. SHE WAITED FOR FIVE MINUTES AND SAID YES. I TOLD HER TO IMAGINE THAT DIAMONDS ARE AVAILABLE AT ALL THE PLACES, YOU DIG IN AND YOU FIND DIAMONDS, EVEN A BLUE COLLAR WORKER IS HAVING DIAMONDS. SHE SAID THEN DIAMONDS LOSE ALL THE CHARM FOR HER. WITH THIS IMAGINATION SHE WAS ABLE TO SEE THAT IT IS THE EXCLUSIVITY OF THE DIAMONDS WHICH MAKES THEM DESIRABLE FOR HER AND NOT THE DIAMOND ITSELF. GOING DEEPER WHY THE EXCLUSIVITY ATTRACTS HER. BECAUSE OWNING AN EXCLUSIVE ITEM PROVES HER SUPERIOR TO OTHER. CONCLUSION IS THAT IT IS NOT DIAMONDS WHICH ARE HER WANTING, IT IS SUPREMACY OVER OTHERS WHICH IS HER WISH. NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. JUST THAT SHE SHOULD KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS AND HOW SHE WANTS. SHE SHOULD NOT BE LIVING IN A CONFUSION. NOW NEW METHODS OF ENJOYMENT WILL BE OPEN TO HER SINCE SHE KNOWS WHAT GIVES HER THE KICKS.

TRY TO SEE WHAT YOU ACTUALLY WANT, NOT WHAT IT LOOKS OUT ON THE SURFACE. WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR PARTNER. IT WILL HELP YOU ACHIEVE MORE AND MORE SATISFACTION. MANY MEN ARE WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITH A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN SO THAT THEY CAN FEEL PROUD OF THEIR ACHIEVEMENT. IF THE SENSE OF PROUD OR POSSESSION IS REMOVED DO YOU WANT HER EQUALLY.

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PRELIMINARIES TO TANTRA SEX - TREATING SEX AS SIN AND GUILT.

BEFORE GOING ON TO EXPLAIN THE STEPS TO TANTRA SEX, I HAVE TO GO INTO THE HINDRANCES WHICH WILL BLOCK YOUR WAY.

SEX, THE WORD ONLY, ACCORDING TO YOU CARRIES A LOT OF EXCITEMENT AND AROUSAL. TRUE, I DONOT DIFFER FROM THAT. BUT THIS EXCITEMENT AND AROUSAL IS ONLY FROM THE CONSCIOUS MIND AND ON THE CONTRARY AT THE SUB-CON LEVEL THERE IS A FEELING OF SIN &; GUILT ATTACHED TO IT. THIS IS DUE TO DEEP LAYERS OF CONDITIONING SINCE CHILDHOOD. WHEN AS AN INNOCENT CHILD YOU WOULD TOUCH YOUR GENITAL AND YOU SAW A DENIAL ON THE FACE OF YOUR PARENTS, YOU IMMEDIATELY WITHDREW YOUR HAND. THAT WAS THE FIRST SILENT MESSAGE SENT TO YOUR SUB-CON THAT SEX IS SINNING. IN TEENS & TILL YOU BECAME INDEPENDENT, YOU WERE NOT EVER GIVEN THE MESSAGE THAT "MY CHILD, SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT IS THE MOST ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE ON THIS EARTH, BUT WAIT TILL YOUR YOUTH OR MARRIAGE AND THEN ENJOY IT FULLY". NOT THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE WORKING TO HARM YOU AND YOU SHOULD BLAME THEM NOW FOR ALL THIS CONDITIONING. TRUTH IS THAT THEY THEMSELVES SUFFERED FROM THE SAME BELIEFS. BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT WE ARE BORN OUT OF SEX AND EVERY PARTICLE OF OUR BODY IS FULL OF SEX. FREUD SAID THAT IF YOU ARE ASKED TO REMEMBER THE FIRST SIGNIFICANT THOUGHT OF YOUR ADOLESCENCE, IT WILL ALWAYS BE SEXUAL. STILL SEX IS DENIED SO MUCH THAT IT GETS THRU' TO ONE'S SUB-CON THAT IT IS SINNING. YOU DO IT BUT ALL THE TIME IT IS ADDING A WEIGHT TO YOUR HEART. LONG TIME BACK I HAD A PARTNER WHO WAS FROM MEDIA BUSINESS AND WHEN EVER SHE WOULD STOP HAVING SEX 15 DAYS BEFORE ANY UPCOMING FILM RELEASE. ONCE SHE TOLD ME ABOUT HER SUPERSTITION. IT TOOK ME 3 MONTH TO CLEAR ALL FROM WITH IN HER.  SO FIRST PRACTICE IS TO SEE THAT DO YOU CARRY THE FEELING OF SINNING AND GUILT ABOUT SEX. JUST WATCH DONOT TRY TO OVERCOME...

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TANTRA TIP FOR WOMEN

Having a perfect figure or beauty has no relation with your enjoyment. Start loving your body as it is. Fall in love with it.

An area ignored by women during self-bliss is tits. Sit comfortably, close your eyes and touch your tits softly, with a feather touch. Talk to them. Shower your love on them. Don't think that they are the means of a foreplay. They have the ability to give complete satisfaction on their own. You don't need to touch your yoni also.

Every step in sex is not the means to the orgasm. It has the beauty and pleasure which is complete in itself.

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TANTRA TIP FOR MEN

Fulfilling sex has got nothing to do with size of your lingam and the amount of time you can stay up.

Fall in love with your Lingam. When you the owner is not satisfied with it how do you expect your partner to be satisfied with it.

Sex is not the exploitation of your partner. Give her pleasure. Don't try to be the best lover or fucker. Be gentle with her, touch her heart.

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