LOVE AND PRESSURE

LOVE, JUST LIKE SEX IS THE MOST MISUNDERSTOOD WORD IN THIS WORLD.

SUPPOSE THAT YOU ARE WITH YOUR PARTNER. IT'S A BEAUTIFUL EVENING AND WEATHER IS JUST RIGHT. PARTNERS MEET AT 9.00 PM. AND ARE HAVING A BEAUTIFUL EVENING.

CONSIDER TWO OPTIONS.
FIRST IS THAT AT 11.30 PM YOU RECALL THAT YOU HAVE GOT SOME IMPORTANT WORK IN MORNING AND NEED REST NOW AFTER GOING HOME. CAN YOU SAY THIS TO YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT ANY HESITATION OR ANTICIPATING ANY REACTION FROM HIM/HER.

SECOND OPTION IS THAT AT 11.30 PM YOUR PARTNER RECALLS THAT HE/ SHE HAS GOT SOME IMPORTANT WORK IN MORNING AND NEED REST NOW AFTER GOING HOME. CAN YOU HEAR IT WITHOUT FEELING BAD OR DOUBTING HIM/ HER OR PRESSURIZING HIM/ HER TO STAY.

DO A REALITY CHECK IF YOU ARE IN SUCH A LOVE RELATIONSHIP IT IS NOT LOVE AND IT IS BONDAGE.